So Who’s Going To Raise The Babies ? 12/24/2014 December 24th, 2014
Merry Christmas Eve everyone.
So which parent is going to stay home and raise the babies? That sometimes difficult question can subdued by 4 year terms, alternating or not, letting the mom raise the babies and do the housework for 8 years and letting the dad have 8 as well. From 16 years old to 20 years old the child should be very self sufficient if the job was done correctly. In those last 4 years a parent may still receive an income and split the term 2 years and 2 years. When the child is 20 Occupational Parenting is done. With the very best product that can be produced. In most homes watching the kids is going to come with cleaning the house and cooking the meals. It’s practical. The reason for a 20 year duration is to satisfy a longer term of employment.
In the question “who’s going to raise the babies”? some groups have a predetermined concept that only the mother can be a home keeper and leave no room for dads what so ever. One such site is Keepers at Home. These dictations are truly prehistoric and probably the way cavemen did things before reading and writing. It is not without insight though. The home keeper’s duties described there in is the calling. A man that wants to be serious about home keeping should look to the work in this site and not the gender. Another site that leaves no room for male home keepers is Keeper of His Home. I have a great amount of disdain for persons who live without their own reason. Instead they live by dictation thousands of years old. I have no problem with persons that love God. I love God. I love the Universe and it loves me right back. Surely their is a reason God gave me a mind for thought and a spirit for feeling. Things just aren’t the same as they were at the dawn of man. I don’t think God has changed but man certainly has. Every so often God tries to give mankind upgrades. Unfortunately these don’t always take, as shown by the number of martyrs (including Jesus) in the worlds religions and in some cases sciences. Having male home keepers is the Universe’s way of saying it’s time to move on to the next plateau. So what has changed about man if the Universe hasn’t changed? My ex-wife says most work of old demanded physical strength and endurance making it man’s work. With the advancement of technology and industry today there’s not nearly the same call for physical strength and a women can do with machinery what only a male could do with his bare hands in times gone by.
Still is one gender superior to the other in home keeping. Let’s take a look at The Umbrella Set E law Human Earth. Three rules apply here more so than the others.
The Rule of Human Need -One must balance and adapt the genes of all their ancestors to their personal need at any given present. If their genealogy consist of many care givers they will have an advantage when forging self; male or female.
The Rule of Socialized Genetics – This one is up for grabs. It’s adapt and overcome. It’s all about the ability to fortify new information and emotional responses. Occupational Parenting will put us in open water and demand that we swim. The one who can stay afloat while integrating the greatest number of strokes wins. Actually there are no losers with Occupational Parenting except those who get fired and even then they’ll just have something they can succeed at and still get the “W”.
The Rule of Anatomical Gender -This is where the female may have the upper hand. Her genealogy will expound child raring while his genealogy will have to revamp the male exposures to integrate child raring. I did learn in college that in need-to situations some males can better their female counterparts but over all I’m going to give this one to the women.
In my personal experience I’ve actually had persons say,”Why don’t you get a real job”; not a lot of folks but enough to be super irritating. I’ve served in war (counts as home keeping), I walk the dog, I do our automotive repair and servicing, I cut and split our wood, do the yard work, construction and renovation projects, stay on top of my daughter’s homework and chores since she started school, sung to her (daily), read to her (nightly) clean the house, do the laundry, I make sure our meals are cooked with love in every mouthful, and I have never used Summer’s Eve even by accident so I’m quite sure that I’m a man and it is a real job. Still with more information and discipline I know I could have done a much better job.
Excerpt and link from Growing Number of Dads Stay home with the Kids
The public is largely supportive of the idea of mothers staying at home with their children, but they place less value on having a stay-at-home father. In a 2013 Pew Research Center survey, fully 51% of respondents said children are better off if their mother is home and doesn’t hold a job. By comparison, only 8% said children are better off if their father is home and doesn’t work. On the other hand, 34% of adults said children are just as well off if their mother works, while 76% said the same about children with working fathers. End of excerpt.
I think there’s a whisper in the spirit of man that says, “it’s still women’s work” and there’s a whisper in the spirit of women that says, “it’s been our only value since the dawn of man”. Man’s world has changed. It’s time for the spirit of mankind to do the same.
I’d like to end this week’s blog on a lighter note.
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Until next time, keep your homes well
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